Be a designer of your experience

We all design, but weโ€™re not all aware weโ€™re doing it.

Iโ€™ve been exploring the space of what it means to be a ๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ง๐˜ถ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ - someone aware of designing the life around them.

People who have studied design or if the word designer is in your job title, are probably a little more comfortable thinking of themselves as designers. But Iโ€™ve worked with lots of people who donโ€™t see themselves as designers yet make design decisions all the time.

It seems to me everyone designs, but weโ€™re not all aware weโ€™re doing it.

Iโ€™m very open to being challenged on this thinking, but Iโ€™ve been wondering:
โ€ข If you are a writer, are you a designer of stories?
โ€ข If you are an entrepreneur, are you a designer of business?
โ€ข If you are an educator, are you a designer of learning?
โ€ข If you are a coach, are you a designer of transformation?
โ€ข If you are influencing or changing policies, are you a designer of systems?
โ€ข If you are creating change in the world, are you part of designing it?
โ€ข If you make or influence decisions at work and home, are you a designer of relationships?
โ€ข If youโ€™re a parent, are you designing your childโ€™s first experiences?
โ€ข If you are a self-learner, are you a designer of you?

The world is full of experiences, services, organisations and interactions that have been designed. Some mindfully, and others not so much.

I wonder that if you donโ€™t intentionally design experiences, they are ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฃ๐˜บ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ต for you.

It seems like we could all consider ourselves potential designers, of course, it doesnโ€™t matter if you do or donโ€™t call yourself one. What does seem useful though is that if more people saw that they are the ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ด ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ณ ๐˜ฆ๐˜น๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ, this could make them more aware that they have the power and responsibility to change it.

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